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Raising a family can be challenging and stressful at times. However, the common goals and emotional, financial, and physical investments made can be a common bond between husband and wife. One that compliments their marriage relationship.Of
Not Letting Them Think.
We all implicitly know that anything questioning the process of cognition itself will be met with massive irritation, making us want to respond with Dont question my capacity to think. Their moronic reasoning to show how logic is derived, provokes the thought, Dont try to tell me
how to think. Forcing their opinions down your throat earns the response, Dont tell me
what to think. Some parents show no respect for personal boundaries long after childhood, straightening your clothes, your hair, invading your privacyincessantly buzzing around you like a mosquito. This belittlement implies incompetent dependencya fundamental insult to Man or animalany way you slice it. These actions tick
everyone off, at any stage in life.
Their children are a test bed for ill technologythe grand experimentsaying In this child, the great dream will be made real, and they hold them to their own irrational standard of how they wish life to be. They experiment with violence, as if forcing kids to practice the senseless can make it succeed, and then take aggression out on them when it fails. They trounce on their childrens right to life by their gift of life. They punish them for having preferences. They force them into unchosen activities, pushing them into unnecessary competition in areas they care or dont care for, straining kids friendships and taking the joy out of everything. Eventually their children accept patterns of repression, whose unchosen and unhappy situations follows them into adulthood.
Breaking life down into philosophic essentials, the motives that drive ideas and actions either go on one sidethe side of life, or on the otherthe side of death. Maybe five percent of parents I have known had a conscious understanding of intellectual essentials and could convey them effectively to children. Thinking is exactly what they dont know how to explain or train. Most wouldnt want to harm children if they knew better, but often they dont and at some point they made the choice
not to know. That is their guilt. The crucial point is that their actions affect the child positively or negatively according to existential cause and effect, regardless of their claimed intentions. So what do they do? They try to live their lives for them. They buzz in their face like an insect and never leave them alone, saying Why do you have to do it my way?
Because, thats why. Do you want to be grounded? Dont question me. They offer no chain, make no attempt to teach one and penalize children for reasoning through what doesnt make sense to them. Riddled with cognitive errors and brimming with inexperience, theyll refuse to spank their child as a moral stand when pleasure and pain are the first rudimentary connections a child can make, and their children never learn to respect social boundaries. Instead theyll attempt to
explain the ramifications of being good or bad when its still well outside their cognitive range. Some hit unjustly, choosing violence as the constant solution instead of responsibly engaging a child ready for more complex understandings. A smothering parent will choose their childrens diet, their interests, their friends, their schedule, their career, their mate, you name it, claiming to care. They will be hated, and as the children grow, both will make each other miserable. When the kids leave, dont expect to see them for a long, long time.
There is no justification for our every action being checked by another. Alone, we can relax. We can try new things, test and entertain conclusions with no need for immediate validation. There are no disagreements to have and no justifications to clear with ourselves, only dysfunctions to identify and inefficiencies to overcome. Few things are more valuable than a safely executed mistake. There are questions in life that
need not be answered on the spot. Experience with the cognitive process itself will provide the completed picture; kids must only remain free to exercise it. Parental interference is a confession that they dont understand the cognitive process themselves, and dont trust their children to use it either. It is
inappropriate to attempt to raise another consciousness until you have mastered your own.
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