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Normal 0 Being a 69 Year young bag of mostlywater (human), and with quite a few 12 month periods of helping others (mostlyteenagers) with all sorts of challenges and other assorted problems. And personally, I am totally 100% convincedthat they are good folks, and have the potential to become great citizensthrough education and good guidance. What really frustrates me, and others, isthat because a few have disrupted some classes, and because some weird idiot/sare afraid to face the real problems, someone has said that we are not allowedto punish our children. I was brought up the old fashion method,and I am still here today actually, I am extremely elated over the fact that myparents cared enough! Another item that seriously polarizes myhappy self are those stupid fanatics that put their children out on the streetswith no where to go, and nothing to do, but live there attempting to findfood out of dumpsters. And I have hadtwo young folks relate that they were thrown out because they did not followthe bible .now how low-life can a person get? They pitch their children out in the name of god! All I can state here is that I truly hopethere is a special place in the lower depths of ______ (you fill in the blankspace) for them. When I lived in Florida, and asked othersabout their children, I couldnt believe how many folks told me in differentwords, that their children never call, write, or visit the (off colornames). Well, I think I know why! However; now that the above is out of mysystem, there are a myriad of ways to help your children good education atschool, the local library, making sure they get involved with one or more typesof sports, Tai Chi, and many others methods of learning. From the minute they are born, read tothem as much as possible even if they are crawling around on the floor, orplaying with some toy --- they ARE listening their brains are soaking upeverything around them. Read to them every chance you get, and encourage themconstantly to read. But there isanother device that should be adhered to on a regular basis is when they areout with friends, and you get a sudden gut instinct, intuition, or whatever youwish to name it, that something might not be right --- check! It doesnt matter how often, but check! Yes, they are going to say that you donttrust them, you are embarrassing them, and maybe get loud but it doesntmatter. Just calmly tell them that you did it to be sure they are safe, andbecause you love them! I cannot begin to count the number oftimes I have heard the following statement from teenagers: My parents dontcare, they never check on me! Trust mefolks, you either check on them, or some gang or drug dealer will pay a lot ofattention to them. It pays to check,and it pays off in the long run! When you tell them they cannot dosomething, be very sure that you explain, again calmly, why! You have to remember that they do not havethe education you do, nor do they have the experience you have. And if you do not explain it to them, theymay never know why, until it is too late. Another item I relate to them is whenthey are approached by someone who wants them to do something they know theyshouldnt do, is to put the blame on their parents. Let them blame you, theparent. When they are still young (not yetteenagers), one of the absolute best things you can do for them is help themdiscover their talents and abilities, show them how they can earn a good livingat them, and then help them lay out the steps to attain those goals. By helping them with the above, you givethem hope for a happy future, confidence that they can attain the goals, andyou prove to them that you do love them --- plus, you have laid the foundationfor times in your elderly ages when you will be alone, and your children willcall, write, and visit you. One other important, fantastic, fabulous,and worthy benefit for you as the parent, is that you fulfilled one of yourgreatest responsibilities --- helping your children! Now just imagine what you can do next!
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