Debunking,The,Myth,Genius,@fon DIY Debunking The Myth of Genius

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The combination of spatial and kinesthetic intelligence can producestar athletes in basketball, pool, skiing and other arenas.  Geniuses in using written orverbal language can excel as authors and public speakers. Also, the whole worldbenefits from those who have a special connection with the environment.  And we all know someone whoexcels in picking up subtle communication cues, like microgestures and vocalintonation. They possess unique skills that facilitate relationships, so wecall them street wise, sensitive, or intuitive.  These social geniuses enjoythriving careers and stable families, using their uncanny self-awareness andability to appreciate the uniqueness of others. In romance, they listen welland have a talent for balancing honesty with respect for their mate’s feelings. And businesses arerecognizing the value of employees who possess self-control, confidence, andempathy for others on their team. In an office setting, if youcan rock a spreadsheet, you could be an Excel genius. Your boss might team youup with a genius in reading gestures, then take you to a meeting with uppermanagement. As you seek your area ofgenius, recall the times from kindergarten to college that you enjoyedlearning. It was easy. It was fun. You were good at it. And remember the timesothers remarked about an exceptional ability you possess. Your brand of genius couldrelate to:  • The natural talents you’reaware of • The subjects were theeasiest to learn and/or the most enjoyable at school• What other people tell youthat you’re good at• What you enjoy doing morethan anything else• Where you are doing itmight be more important than what you’re doing (e.g., you might prefer outdooractivities like sports, farming, forestry, travel, etc).  YourSingular Sensationalness Theconcept of genius is woefully misunderstood, and we’re living with theconsequences. The most limiting myth of our time is that there’s somethingmagical—or rare—about inspired genius.  In fact,we all have passion, and passion inspires genius in everyone, all the time.Albert Einstein once said that everyone is a genius. I agree.  Anindividual form of genius resides in each and every one of us, waiting to beexpressed. Teachers, parents, business leaders and researchers are beginning torecognize that everyday genius is the greatest untapped resource of oursociety.  Truefulfillment comes from sharing whatever flavor of genius you possess, inwhatever way is meaningful to you.  Butmost people go through their whole lives never knowing the unbridled joy ofpursuing their passion and expressing their genius. No matter what yourcircumstances, you have opportunities to share your knowledge, your talent, andyour caring. When you’re doing whatever you love to do, your life and everyoneelse’s life is enriched. Whether a chef, a stay-homeparent, an accountant or a world leader, passion is the common denominator thatexalts ordinary work to the level of joyous fulfillment. Everyday genius is aform of passion that has a special intangible quality, the x-factor that takeswork to a higher level.  With genius engaged, workdoesn’t feel like work. It’s nothard or forced—the ideas and their implementation seem to just flow. There’s aneasiness, a naturalness that makes work more enjoyable.     Becausepassion-inspired genius creates everything that’s worthwhile and enduring.  I’veseen it over and over: when someone has passion, they find whatever supportthey need—information, finances, even friendship—to create the optimalenvironment for expressing their genius.  Ihave witnessed these “coincidences” so many thousands of times, I’ve come tobelieve that there’s no such thing as happenstance. Only outcomes based on yourbeliefs about what’s possible.  Passiongives you the energy to follow through on the opportunities to pursue yourgenius. When you’re open to everypossibility, you’re looking for them, and you’re jumping all over them when yousee them.   Leveraging Your GeniusThrough Talents A lever multiplies themechanical force, or effort that can be applied to another object. Commonexamples of levers are a crowbar, a seesaw and a wheelbarrow.  Another term for lever is mechanicaladvantage. If you’ve ever used acrowbar to change a tire or a wheelbarrow to move dirt in a garden, you canappreciate the advantage of leverage.  Your intelligence is a formof power, a tool you can use consciously to create meaning in your life. Sowhen you apply the concept of leverage to your personal power, passion isthe lever that multiples the advantage of the intelligent force you apply.  In other words, passiongives your genius the leverage to create the best life you can imagine with theleast amount of effort.  Passion is boundless,endless, and infinitely powerful. Your passion will guide you to express yourgenius in a way that is meaningful to you.  One of the tools ofpassion is your individual group of talents. Youpossess natural talents based on how your brain is wired. Since brains can bewired in an infinite variety of ways, you have a specific group of things youhave a talent for, and all the rest are non-talents.  Researchershave identified more than 100 behaviors that reveal how your talents play outin your daily activities. Look athow you think, how you make decisions, and how you implement them.  Thesebehaviors will indicate if you have a talent for strategic thinking, conceptualthinking, organization, taking initiative, embracing challenges, socialintelligence, etc. Forexample, if you can’t figure out how to get your life organized, you don’t havea natural talent for it. Classes and planners won’t produce the organization youseek; they’ll only leave you feeling frustrated.  Sodon’t waste your time on tools that are designed for people who have anorganizing talent they want to strengthen. Instead,partner with an organizer, delegate the task to someone else, or pay someone todo it for you. The point is to choose a strategy that doesn’t rely on youdoing something you’re not talented at.   DebunkingThe Myth Of Weaknesses Yourdeepest fulfillment in life stems from the passionate expression of yourtalents. But keep in mind that you might not have passion for all of yourtalents.  Forinstance, I have a talent for bookkeeping, but I don’t enjoy it. I use thetalent to manage my personal finances, but I’m not making a career of it.  Soyour greatest power comes from building your life around the talents you havepassion for, and finding work-arounds for the non-talents and non-passionatetalents. It’sthrough your choice of how you use your talents that you create your experienceof strengths and weaknesses. I’m going to pause here to explode yet anothermyth (you know how I love to do this!). Youdon’t have strengths and weaknesses. You create them by whetherand how you use your talents and non-talents.  Here’show it plays out with talents:  • Youcreate a strength when you relyon a talent• Youcreate a weakness when you don’t leveragea talent Likewise,here’s how it plays out with non-talents: • Youcreate a strength when you avoidusing a non-talent• Youcreate a weakness when you relyon a non-talent For instance,I have a talent for organizing. I get a huge kick out of cleaning out a closet,getting rid of stuff I don’t need any more, and tidying up the rest. I usethis same talent to organize my business priorities. But if I don’t take amoment at the beginning of the day to use my talent, I’ll get distracted. I’llspend the day on a project that’s fun, but not the most important thing. In theprocess, I’ll miss a deadline and end up feeling frustrated.   Incontrast, earlier we explored strategies that avoid reliance on a non-talentfor organizing: you could hire an organizer or delegate the task to someoneelse.  Thepoint is, when you know what your non-talents are and find a way to render themirrelevant, you’ll never have another weakness. Wouldn’t that be a great feeling? Your confidenceand sense of fulfillment will soar.  WhatThe World Needs Now The more kinds ofintelligences you discover inside yourself, the better your life can be. So Idon’t want to leave this conversation about genius without touching on what Ibelieve is the highest form of intelligence: love.  Theability to care for and appreciate yourself is the strongest predictor of truehappiness and fulfillment. Althoughit’s not taught in school, love is a type of intelligence that can becultivated lifelong. Andthe payoff touches every part of your life. When you learn to love yourself ina highly intelligent way:  •Your confidence will grow •Your ability to trust yourself will grow•You’ll deepen your self-knowledge • You’llbe more willing to learn •You’ll tap into your innate creativity more•You’ll enjoy your life more fully•You’ll be more understanding and compassionate toward yourself. Butthe bennies don’t stop with yourself.When you love, accept and appreciate yourself, it’s human nature to want toextend that experience to your relationship with others.  Solet’s explode yet another myth of self-improvement: that personal developmentleads to selfish, narcissistic navel-gazing. In all my years of coaching, I’ve seen the exact opposite.  Loveremoves the obstacles to loving others more deeply and fully. Self-love imbues you with confidence, which dispelsfears about intimacy with others. When you’re secure in who you are, you’llnaturally want to share the fun.  Infact, you’ll be able to love others in a similar highly intelligent way as youlove yourself. Let’s apply this ideato the list above:  •Your confidence in others will grow •Your ability to trust others will grow•You’ll deepen your knowledge of others •You’ll be more willing to learn about others•You’ll encourage others to express their innate creativity more•You’ll enjoy your life with others more fully•You’ll be more understanding and compassionate toward others. In what ways are you raisingyour love intelligence quotient?