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"妞，别上大学了，我给你首付买个房，咱找个男友生娃吧！“买房砖家Kirsty Allsopp劝告女生。
Allsopp baby remarks ‘patronising’
http://celebrity.uk.msn.com/news/allsopp-baby-remarks-patronising-1
Kirstie Allsopp’s suggestion that young women should ditch university in favour of finding a boyfriend and having a baby by the age of 27 are “rather patronising” to teenage girls, a leading headmistress has said.
Jo Heywood, head of Heathfield School, a girls’ school in Ascot, said she applauded the property guru’s point that girls should consider their futures, but said it had been spoilt by her talk of “boyfriends and babies”.
In an interview with the Telegraph, TV presenter Kirstie suggested that it was time to speak “honestly and frankly” about fertility and the fact that it declines dramatically once a woman is in her mid-30s.
“At the moment, women have 15 years to go to university, get their career on track, try and buy a home and have a baby,” she said. “That is a hell of a lot to ask someone. As a passionate feminist, I feel we have not been honest enough with women about this issue.”
Allsopp later went on to say: “I don’t have a girl, but if I did I’d be saying 'Darling, do you know what? Don’t go to university. Start work straight after school, stay at home, save up your deposit - I’ll help you, let’s get you into a flat. And then we can find you a nice boyfriend and you can have a baby by the time you’re 27.”
She added that women have time to work on their career after they have had children.
“I don’t want the next generation of women to go through the heartache that my generation has,” Kirstie said.
“At the moment we are changing the natural order of things, with grandparents being much older and everyone squeezed in the middle. Don’t think ‘my youth should be longer’. Don’t go to university because it’s an ‘experience’. No, it’s where you’re supposed to learn something! Do it when you’re 50!”
But Ms Heywood said that youngsters need to make the right choices at the right time for themselves.
“Teenagers should always be encouraged to go to university or straight to work for the right reasons, and should be encouraged to choose the path which suits them - not the one that is likely to ensure they can buy property or have a baby by the most i妹妹ediate route,” she said.
“I would never encourage a bright teenager to ditch their university prospects for fear they won’t ‘have it all’ in the future. I believe having it all is a total myth - it is more a case of doing what is right for you and making the right choices at the right time for you.”
Writing for the Independent School Parent website, Ms Heywood said she thought that a graduate with a good degree would be likely to be able to buy their first flat around the same age as someone who has worked from the age of 16 or 18, if not sooner.
“I applaud what Kirstie is saying in principle - that girls should consider their future and security - but I think she spoils her point by suggesting abandoning university is the way forward and her talk of boyfriends and babies is rather patronising for the generation I am preparing for university and beyond.”
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四年后你们会明确。你们明天的致力根本上是扯王八犊子。改动你们命运的不是常识文明，次要是爹妈，长相。。。。还有你们村是否要拆迁了！
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此外考上大学的同窗留意了，要记得和没考上或弃考的同窗搞好瓜葛，等大学结业了好去他们的公司去打工！考上一本的要常常分割二本的，将来故乡的领导就是他们！二本的要跟大专的搞好瓜葛，他们将是你们孩子的教师！
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She’s got a point
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:lol 那她是没糊口在中国。咱们从小天天看到的口号是“ 好好学习，每天向上”。 不就义本人学习，那有过来喊 我们CHINK到明天喊 投资投资啊
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彻底赞成读太多书有毛子用啊
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看到过一句话，每集体都渴想胜利，每集体均可以胜利，思想的启迪，智慧的光芒会点亮你的人生，空虚你的心灵，成绩你不屈凡的终身。
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说的有点极端，为了上头条吧;P
不外话糙理不糙，首要的是因才施教
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可见在资本收益率为王的年代，各国都同样哦。叼丝的话，不管如何，不管哪里，都是叼丝。而高帅富则是不管到哪里都有相似的糊口。作为叼丝一枚，还终日冥思苦想是不是移民如何待业，其实，就算移民，也是叼丝……只不外把地舆坐标变了下，环境反而更陌生……真是有些想去还俗的激动……
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楼上有人宣传读书无用论。读书的确不克不及包管大富大贵，然而不代表不读书就确定能大富大贵吧。你咋不看看那些不读书而胜利的比例？全都是一些特例，他们大部份不都仍是在社会底层？在国际找个对象他人还要挑挑学历呢！
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我怎么感觉说的颇有情理呢。
作为女孩子长相身体真的很首要，其次就是应该有指标，知道本人何时要甚么。
不要为了点情情爱爱的占满了脑子，再伟大的恋情最初都是柴米油盐。
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这不就是变相的说：读书其实也是件很豪侈的事件吗？并且，不是合适一切人！
自从没有收费的教育，就没有对等的人生。
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说读书没用的次要仍是由于本人学渣吧？
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在中国混 大部份人仍是读书上学工资结婚生子 正常套路
有捷径的人仍是多数啊
不上大学妞 也必需是丑陋的 还得是没脾气的 违心给人家生娃的
否则谁傻的给你买房子
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其实有一定情理！
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呵呵，说的挺对的，我感觉也能够这样。
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看人。本身聪明致力成就好任务有出路的女孩，21岁就能大学结业，违心读博士24岁博士结业，运气好的话间接做大学讲师，25岁生孩子，30岁以前生2－3个，而后好好集体致力一路升到传授。45岁以前做到的女传授见过不少，人家也是2个娃儿，25－30岁生的，一点都不耽搁升职加薪拿名目。彪悍的人生不需求解释。固然咱们只要艳羡的命。
没感觉早早嫁人生孩子不任务的女人如许享用糊口。成天八卦来八卦去他人家的事儿，不感觉无聊吗？固然，人家可能还不幸咱们打工一族呢。
只想说：甚么样的爹妈就有甚么样儿的娃儿。我仍是做致力任务的妈，给孩子做个好表率。毕竟娃儿是男的，没有嫁人这个退路。
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